THE
PERFECT MAN
There was a couple I knew
Everything in their lives seemed perfect
They had love, they had wealth
Later on they had a son
He grew up to be handsome
He was right on top of his class
And also excellent in sports
Many people wanted
to be his friend
Girls loved him
After college, he was a merchant
Who wisely saved, spent and invested money
When he was 30, he was a millionaire
But a part of this story is missing
Three years after his birth
His mum gave birth to another son
Also handsome but not as bright and smart
As his elder brother
When he went to his brother for help,
His brother pushed him aside
Like I said many people wanted to be his friend
But they could not
He was an introvert, did not care about others
THAT WAS HIS PROBLEM
A smart man with a great prospect
It is worthy of note that those girls
Who admired him and jostled around him for attention
were always pushed aside by him
were always pushed aside by him
He felt others even those close to him (parents and
brother)
Were distractions to his success
He could not understand others
He was not comfortable around others and
Did not care about others
AGAIN, I SAY THAT WAS HIS PROBLEM.
No lady wants a man like
this, especially in a time where woman is on the lookout for the PERFECT MAN,
but there is nothing as bad as getting engaged to a man that is insensitive,
unable to understand what you are going through or give you courage or support
during your trying times.
Ladies are looking for Mr
Right, a man with a couple of favourable attributes :
A man who is funny,
handsome, down-to-earth, caring, intelligent, charming, sexy (six packs), tall,
rich, (a heavy six or seven figure monthly income) and the list goes on and on
Tyler Perry once made a joke
about women looking for their perfect man and painted a clear scenario of a
woman who five pages of attributes she wants in her man, but at the age of
fifty, the five page long attributes drastically reduces to five letters.
“Lord,
just let him breathe”.
Obviously, everybody need
somebody to hold and cling on to but what should be the major attributes of
your perfect man :
1.
VISION
Ladies should look for a man
who has a definite plan of what he wants to achieve not just a man who wants to
get married, have kids, be rich, provide for his parents in their old age and
die.
A man who is eager to make an
impact on the society by either dedicating himself to a noble cause or standing
for something that others will follow
2.
INDEPENDENT
Ladies, another attribute of
a husband material is a man who can stand alone and can rely majorly on the
resources at his disposal, not one who goes running to his parents when faced
with any slight challenge but one who can depend on himself or else such a man
is not ready to raise a family.
3.
GOOD LISTENER
Listening, the quality in a man hat should be
admired, a man who creates time to listen to what you feel and will be willing
to listen to all have to say no matter how boring your speech may be. Scientists
have proven that ladies feel better when they have someone who is always ready
to listen to all they have to say. So ladies look for a good listener.
4.
CARING
Most men who are good and genuine listeners tend to be
caring. Caring men don’t wait till you have something bothering you so that
they will listen, they are able to recognize when you are not at your best. They
are the ones that ask this rare question “How was your day?” This means that
they are evidently concerned about your well being.
5.
A COACH AND AN INSTRUCTOR
This is very important
especially during child-raising. Women should appreciate men that are capable
of being an instructor (not a harsh one) and a coach that would be able to
complement her motherly duties of being a teacher.
As we all know, mothers are
teachers and fathers are trainers and instructors. If a woman gets such a man, they will be able
to raise a total child.
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Let’s not forget that he must have a good
character and be God-fearing.
Ladies, now you have it all,
open your eyes clearly and choose wisely, God will direct your steps.
Thank
You. Have a lovely day.
